George,
have you ever tried running a breather into the header, like we do on race cars? Fast moving exhaust gases creat low pressure, the crank case typically has higher pressure, (some blow by, air not moving fast like in the exhaust, mostly turbulent air which is by nature higher pressure than non turbulent air), so the crank case vents nicely into the exhaust and is pulled out. This set ups works real well on race cars, of course only drag cars can use it as the road race guys have rules requiring catch cans.
Tom