Well, believe me, any question you ask is not a dumb one, it would be very easy for me to overlook something obvious here. Now to answer your questions: The stock rockers were replaced with roller rockers from EC. So I did set the valve lash at .004" when I installed them. Looking in the spark plug hole I can see that the valve is not hitting the piston. The head gaskets used are just stock Briggs gaskets, and the cam I have came from this engine, sent it to Precision, and returned. All I know about it is that Precision says it's a "373 Special Grind" cam. I do not know how much the profile has changed from stock.
I suppose I am coming down to two options here soon; one would be to spend 10 hours driving down to you, George, and have you take a look at things. I know with gasoline prices being what they are that would be a costly trip, especially if the problem is a simple fix.