I know what you are saying, I commend you on saying when! I have found THAT is one of the hardest things to do. My wife will head guys of and tell them no, at first I would get mad but she was looking out for me. She does look after me. I am not on your level of side work but I could be if lynn had not stepped in. My side work would be cars and bikes, I started doing this to break away from that and it has helped. It is really wonderful to hear about a father and son, daughter working together and really bonding, THATS FAMILY!! I hope you will keep talking with all of us. We respect and trust you and your words at least I do. Ten years ago I took a job 50 miles from home and alot of the stop in and work calls pretty much stopped, but the drive is a killer. Make sure you do for YOUR family and YOU first. If I can ever help you in any way let me know. YOU got to enjoy yourself don't loose that!